I define submission on a
basic level as the yielding of control in order to appease another. But on a deeper
level, I see submission as an act of trust and an acceptance of unconditional
love. I would want my mate to truly accept the unconditional love I offer him
and for me his complete obedience and trust is the proof of a loving and
committed relationship. To me, the joyful feeling that he receives from
submitting, comes from this well of unconditional love that he has let himself
accept. Any pain I inflict, any boundaries I push, any humiliation he suffers,
and any discomfort he overcomes are all proof of his love and respect for me. I wonder if anyone else feels this way.
Hello, I find your first two blog postings very interesting and enjoyable. I agree that submission is a big act of trust and I also strongly believe the reverse is equally true for the Dom(me) in the relationship. D/s cannot work without trust on both sides.
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